Armando Chilelli —

My father. Larger than life. Brighter than sunshine. Honest as Abe. Friend to all he met.

Armando Chilelli, 91, died on February 21st, 2021, at his home in Edmonds with his family by his side.  He was born April 16th, 1929, in Brooklyn, New York.

Armando grew up in Italy, in a town called Paola. This is where he fell in love with his forever love. By one look at a picture set upon a wall. He set his sights on Maria Teresa  DePaola (Sina); they married on August 28th, 1953. They celebrated 67 years of marriage.

Armando and his bride moved from Italy to Alderwood Manor, Washington. They settled and lived in Lynnwood for 40 plus years, then the last twenty years in Edmonds.

When moving to Washington, Sina had relatives to support the young couple’s starts. Armando built roads up on the Olympic Peninsula. Learning to handle large road equipment and machinery. He loved moving big piles of dirt. After a while, Armando decided it was time for him to start his own business.

He exhibited all the traits of an entrepreneur. He started a General Contracting business, A.C Builders Homes, Inc., that spanned more than fifty years of successful outcomes. He was involved in owning a Quarry and Cabinet Shop.

Armando was a creative thinker and often invented things to make life easier to deal with, and everyone that knows him has been exposed to his inventions.

Armando loved to golf. He was exceptional at it. He did bowl as well and was incredibly good at that, too. Armando was a watercolor painter. He took college entry classes to become skilled at his work. Many an art shows displayed his art.

He was a Master Gardener— growing many types of vegetables and plants. He was so giving with his bounty. People that knew him were never short of vegetables for their meals.

Armando was an advocate for issues and people in the political arena. Always doing what was good for the community.

There is so much more to add for Armando because he was a larger-than-life figure; everyone he came into contact with left a bit better off.

He is survived by his wife Maria Teresa (Sina), and his daughters, Luana Chilelli (her partner Marty Krueger), Teresa Chilelli-White (her husband Bruce White), Donna Chilelli, and grandson Johnathan White.

A private service will be held Tuesday, March  2nd, 2021.

There will be a memorial in the late spring or early summer to celebrate his remarkable life.

 

Rules For Life Dwelling in Possibilities

  • Smile — at everyone you pass. Remember it will remind you that everything always works out in the end.
  • Be Kind — you hold the power within you to make anyone you meet feel good. It is a superpower.
  • Do Not Give Up — if it doesn’t work out the first time you try something, try again. Look for other possibilities.
  • Be Gracious and Charitable Toward Others — for everyone is on a different journey with different struggles.
  • Banish Negativity — avoid negative thoughts, sidestep negative space, remove yourself from negative situations, and distance yourself from negative people.
  • Have Peace in Your Heart for the Past, Present, and Future — create harmony in your world. Love your world. Make accord with your past. Hold peace in your heart when there is chaos in the present. Prepare your heart for the loving world you want in the future.
  • Mind, Body, and Soul — be gentle with and aware of your mind and body connection. Feed your mind with knowledge. Nurture your body with nutrients. Wrap your soul with compassion.

There could always be more rules. Like, listening to music every day. Bury yourself in a book. Share a story of joy with a friend. Look up an old friend from the past. Connect with nature as much as you can.

What would your addition to this list of rules be? I know you have something. Because you live a life of kindness and joy. You Love Your World. Share it.

BY LChilelli lustellarose https://lustellarose.com/

Kindness is a lifestyle

Why would you want to be kind when most of what is around you are all and more about people dying, people living lives fulfilled with no purpose, people having irrational thoughts that could be harmful, and the list of negative actions, situations, and overall global discontent amongst ourselves is infinite— IF WE MAKE IT THAT WAY.

This is an action if every woman in the world would do; it would tremendously impact the world.

Smile. Make eye contact. Smile. Let that person feel good for those seconds. Those seconds add up and spread. The Smile causes an effect to happen like any other action you take. The action sparks an effect.

The law of cause-and-effect states that: Every effect has a specific and predictable cause. Every cause or action has a specific and predictable effect. This means that everything that we currently have in our lives is an effect that is a result of a specific cause.

Smile. Make Eye contact. That ignites a Spark. The Smile Recipient receives the effect of feeling — Good. Maybe Great.

A small but powerful impact.

That is the beginning of having Kindness as a lifestyle.

Grab your journal. (if you want to) bring your most open, creative, gracious, generous self. Join a discussion of topics around the world about Kindness. Not a new concept at all. However, a concept we are revisiting and reigniting.

Plus, add this to your journal.

Let us move on. Have you tried the action of “Smile”? Always. Smile and Be Nice.

Another part of the Kindness Lifestyle is to be Nice.